BORN LUCKY

One of the best pieces of luck in my life is Gary. He’d say the same. Yes, I’m certain.

In 1971, when I left DJ’s Sound City, the only job I’ve ever been laid off from, I applied for work at the University Book Store in Seattle. It was, at that time, the largest of its kind in the world—it offered a huge selection of trade books, half the basement given over to textbooks, and other departments serving students at the University of Washington. I wanted to work in the Art Department since I was a studio arts major, but because of my experience in a record store, I was placed in the Music Department, working for Jess Burton. It was an essential part of my education.

The Music Department had a small case of the new CDs, but mostly records in bins north and south and in a double row facing outward down the long, narrow center of our shop. In the middle we carried the new rock and folk facing north, and “popular music” such as 101 Strings facing south—they were awful. And because we carried a lot of classical music on the south wall fan ing north, I am familiar with Baroque and earlier work recorded on the on the Nonesuch label, and other wonderful pieces from Deutsche Gramophone. I found Paul Horn on the north side of the store facing south and more jazz beyond Brubeck.

Employees were allowed to open some LPs to listen and then reseal them in a plastic envelope. I had been exposed to full orchestras in Music classes in my public grade school, but I discovered the rest of the world partly because of that part-time job—from German Baroque to Nigerian mbira.

The concerts I attended during that time leaned toward folk: Laura Nyro, Joni Mitchell, and Donovan, but also Janis and Grace, Simon and Garfunkel. I heard more on vinyl, but I first learned about the mbira when it was played during one of the classes I had that was created and taught by African graduate students from across the University. We heard wonderful music, read Things Fall Apart, and learned more about African cultures than from any other class except Sonya Sollands’s Intro to Cultural Anthropology. The pet line in my department was “Art for Art’s Sake” which never felt quite right to me, and then Art History and classes outside my major explained that for me. Art has function beyond mere decoration, a “new” notion from the European Renaissance. Art is history, protest, emotional support, comfort, meaning. I was convinced the Venus of Willendorf wasn’t merely a “fertility symbol”—it begs to be held in the hand. I made things that were useful and continue to value the quilt over the wall-hanging, the vessel over the table sculpture. There is room for both, of course there is. I learned that too. Room for the soloist and the full orchestra, the trio and marching band.

I worked in that Music shop throughout the fifth year required for my two studio arts majors. In my last year, Gary was working, and I only worked retail over the holidays while completing a third degree in education and not at all during my student teaching before graduation in 1976. Two bus rides and about an hour each way.

Without applying for either, I was offered two jobs teaching high school Art after I graduated. I can thank a favorite prof, Hazel Koenig for that. She’s the one who pretty much dragged me into education, and she was a wonderful Design teacher. I’ve kept work from her class and from Alden Mason’s Design class all these years.

I wonder sometimes if my grandchildren would recognize those pieces of music that I had come to know by their age. Did they stand before an easel in Kindergarten and have an epiphany about red hair, that “red hair” isn’t red? Did they model clay in first grade? Did someone tell them a wonderful story about whales or circus cats?

Do they recognize who and what makes their parents nostalgic or uncomfortable? Does one of their parents remind them to “think how the other person feels”? Have they baked bread, a cake, a pie? An entire feast? Have they climbed trees and run wild in the woods? Have they tutored other students, traveled to other countries, met spiritual leaders at church?

Do the high school students of today understand just how awful current public discourse has become, how unlike the way people spoke to and about one another before they were born?

I was born lucky, I guess.

This is me making boxes and preparing for shipping my novel: ALL THE DAUGHTERS SING. It has a quarter page missing and too many typos, but it’s beautiful to me. I hope it’s not only my age that recommends my book.

7 thoughts on “BORN LUCKY”

  1. How weird that the photos are “catty whompass,” or “sky-western-crooked,” (both expressions that Janice liked to use.) I envy you having heard Laura Nero and Simon & Garfunkel in concert. I scraped togehter money to go to Joni Mitchel when she was playing at the Troubedor Club in West Hollywood, and then her “Miles of Aisles” tour, but I discovered Laura Nero later, and missed that chance. Don’t know how I missed any concerts with S & G. In high school I fantasized moving to New York and hanging out on the Columbia campus, because I heard he was working on his MA there. Yes, I feel lucky to have been educated in decades past, when research and discussion were part of the paths to knowledge.

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    • Simon and Garfunkel performed at HecEd on the UW campus, down the hill from the main campus and I missed the orchestra. Everyone screamed too much to hear the Beatles. [Gary saw pretty much everyone because he had friends with connections.] Laura Nyro’s concert was in a large hall but felt intimate. Joni was the best of all! She told stories.

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      • Oooops, looked like I misspeled Nyro’s name. (I meant no disrespect!) I felt that the Troubedor concerts (I went to more than one) were very intimate with Joni. I love her Song to a Seagull album, and she played a lot of songs from that back then. After my cassette tape of it fizzled, I went into my local music store to order it on CD (decades later) and the kid working there “corrected” me and said her 1st album was titled with just her name. I tried to argue, but we had agreed that I wanted the one I pointed out on the screen wth her artwork on the cover, and he ordered it for me, a bit condescendingly. When it came in, he was sheepish, and apologized. I guess someone else had pointed out to him that her title was right there, in the sky, “disguised” as seagulls. I also heard her at the Hollywood Bowl, and I complained loudly (waiting in line to enter the seating area) that she was given second billing, under Crosby, Stills, and Nash–whose claim to fame was the AM Radio hit, “Marakesh Express,” which I thought was meh. But then she joined them, and they did an acoustic set, followed by a “mellow electric” set, with even more “guests.” Walking out, many strangers (who had heard my complaints), asked if the “guy group” deserved some praise and I had to say Yes, YES, they were great. (I’ve always been a sucker for good harmony.) Their “Suite Judy Blue Eyes” was the grand finale of that concert. Beautiful.

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  2. Greg and I often say that we were lucky to be born when we were. For me especially, I remember being motivated by students questioning authority (to the horror of my mother), by women insisting on the right to control their own bodies, by people of color fighting for the right to vote (something I could not wait to do … it was more important to me than learning to drive). My high school started offering special courses in ecology in line with the growing concern about the environment. When President Carter urged us to save energy, we did. I do remember people being angry with Carter, but I liked him. People want to ban books because they don’t want children to learn empathy. We have a lot of crises in this country, but that might be the biggest crises of all: the loss of empathy.

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