Our first dog was Oranje Anisette, Ann Ann, who was a year and a half old when she came to us in 1973. She had been owned by a Saluki breeder who found her character too gentle to be a fit for him. I had flown to Arizona to look at a bloodline I first met through magazine photos. I wanted to show Afghan Hounds. I was flexible aboust age and color, though I had been to enough dog shows by then to know that black dogs disappear in the ring. Ann Ann was black.

Our second Afghan Hound was Onika and I had driven with Canadian friends from Seattle to Colorado to see her as a puppy. There were five puppies in the pen when we arrived outside Fort Collins and the breeder was not yet home from work. The one girl who caught my eye over and over turned out to be Onika. Her mother was BOB at the first Colorado Grand National Field Trial—seeing that trial was the reason my Canadian friends made the trip. Onika later won both her majors owner-handled, but she died when she was chased onto the highway by a well-meaning neighbor in 1980. I sat in the garden and cried and cried.
Manny was Gary’s dog and one of only three puppies Ann Ann produced in her two litters. He was born on the couch while we still lived in Seattle. So were Onika’s puppies. We kept Bowzer and Snowbird. These dogs were all BOB Field Champions in two countries.

The second dog who died was Ann Ann. She was seventeen when her bad days began to outnumber her good ones. I took her to be put down. And again, I cried and cried. She was a dear sweet girl.

I held Bowzer when he was put down a few years later, because he was dying of lymphoma. Manny and Snowbird were thirteen. Our first Saluki Aagah was a few months younger when she died at home after being at the vet earlier in the day. Spot, Bosco, Taidi, and by the last Afghan, I asked Gary go alone with them to the vet. From the late 70s until the 2000s these dogs usually numbered six in the house.
Our first cat in Oregon, Zora, died at nineteen and the second, a foundling Leakey, was not that old, though we were only guessing at her age. They all stayed with us until they died. We tried to be good to our animals, we loved them and fed them well. I was forever bathing and grooming. We took responsibility for their entire lives and eventually took responsibility for their deaths.

When Yeti died on our couch in 2017, Gary was holding her. Like Aagah, the vet had sent her home. Yeti is our last.

In our fifty-year relationship, Gary and I have had five cats and eleven dogs. We were instrumental in establishing lure field coursing in the PNW and also active in the Canadian Sighthound Field Association (I drew their logo). I judged field trials all over the country and across Canada for a while. In the months before Alan was born, I was away at shows and field trials as much as I was at home. That activity slowed to a crawl after our boys were born, but they enjoyed adventures in Alberta and California for the sake of dog events. We sacrificed for the dogs. We always had to get home to take care of them, to let them out into the yard or to feed them. Their presence shaped our day, our lives. While we were young and childless, the dogs always ate better than we did. We used to console ourselves that horses would have been worse.
I recognize that our sons, while their needs always came first, surely missed some advantages because of the costs of keeping all those dogs and attending all those events. There is the cost in money to feed and care for animals, the cost in time and attention, and the cost in emotion. It is the last Gary believes we can no longer afford. We loved them. We miss them still.

Some of our best friends are people we met through our involvement with dogs (even now after all these years), and some of our best friends have been our dogs and cats. After Yeti’s death and until the pandemic, we eagerly petted and praised the dogs we met on the beach. Now we avoid that as well. I still tell Hank he’s a good dog, and I greet Roxxie and Carl and others. Once I am vaccinated, I tell myself, I can pet dogs again.

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When we get to where we’re going, they will be there and smiling. They will ask: what took you so long?
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What a lovely, yet bittersweet story. Reading of your love for all your pets warms my heart. Yes, they’ll be eagerly waiting for you when you get to where you’re going…
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Thank you for your kind words!
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Holy cow—that’s us in the Afghan Hound photo! Me with Ann Ann [Canadian Champion Oranje Anisette—our first], shown as a veteran at the Evergreen Afghan Hound Club. Our older son Alan toddled around that show in a red t-shirt that I’d embroidered with “Bred By Exhibitor” on the front.
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