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  • KIDS THESE DAYS

    KIDS THESE DAYS

    “Sit still,” the trainee told him several times with increasing frustration. “Sit still!” When he finally did sit in his chair, the little boy completed the test. He scored so very badly. The trainer took her student aside. “Try again but let him move around this time.” Do I need to tell how much better…

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  • SKEPTICISM

    SKEPTICISM

    Examples of “evidence” I discount:• Your boyfriend’s uncle’s friend survived a house invasion only because he kept a loaded gun under his pillow.* You saw a YouTube video/Snapchat/Tweet/X post/Facebook story that proves there is a cabal of dems holding torturous events at the local pizza palace.• You found the photo that proves how people in…

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  • GAUGUIN

    GAUGUIN

    I understand from reviews that at least some readers and professional reviewers are relieved that Sue Prideaux in her new biography, Wild Thing, exonerates Gauguin’s egregious sexual relationships with girls and women because the times were different. How nice. [The French, among others, have long struggled to recognize sexual exploitation of female children, not to mention…

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  • REMIND ME

    REMIND ME

    The last word. You write. You submit. You wait. You are rejected. Only that first verb matters. Remember that. Keep going. You write. You submit. You wait for rejection. It is tempting to believe in failure, that rejection is deserved, that it is right. Every creative person knows this process of making and reworking and…

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  • FOOT by FOOT

    FOOT by FOOT

    Everything is blooming here, other than things that are already nearly done blooming. In the front yard the wild roses and rhododendron and irises are done, but Pink Grootendorst is still setting new buds and so is my favorite double white rugosa. The honeysuckle and salal are still in flower, and the ceanothus is covered…

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  • SHOOT

    SHOOT

    In 1972, I drove across the country with my grandfather’s third wife Genevieve to a sheep farm in Kansas. I had never been over the Rockies before that. Vietnam was at war, I learned to spin wool that summer, and when I got back Gary and I moved in together on the 4th of July.…

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  • KYLENE BEERS

    KYLENE BEERS

    Heroes aren’t my thing—I resist heroics, but I do have a few people I hold in my heart. Sojourner Truth is always the first. Many authors. Many people I’ve never met. And Kylene, who I met and then followed online for thirty years. She was an inspiration to me and many other teachers—the only academic…

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  • JUNE NINETEENTH

    JUNE NINETEENTH

    Juneteenth, also known as Emancipation Day or Freedom Day, celebrates the end of slavery in the United States.* Years ago, our son’s orthodontist commented to me that our sons were similarly handicapped when applying to college because they were white boys. He smiled, a virtual nudge-nudge, we’re in this together, right? His son’s application to…

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  • WORRY

    WORRY

    It’s true I am inclined to worry. My mother was a worrier and actively taught me all the tricks and habits of an active worrier. I worry about my husband dying, about the welfare of our sons and their eventual retirement, the grandchildren and other family members. I worry about friends living in red states…

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  • THE DOORS

    THE DOORS

    One of Linde’s renderings of the Embassy. The 1923 elevation drawing by architect Carl L. Linde, a copy of which is hung opposite the elevator on the first floor, does not indicate the colors for the entry facade. The drawing does seem to show the surround as somewhat lighter than the tinted concrete and the…

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