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  • FOOD for the HOLIDAYS

    FOOD for the HOLIDAYS

    When Gary and I were in college at the University of Washington, Starbucks was a brand new store at the old Public Market, Pike Place. We did not drink coffee, but I shopped in Starbucks for spices and chocolate at the original store, and then later at University Village, at their second store. Spice and…

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  • LETTING THINGS GO

    LETTING THINGS GO

    My step grandmother gave a mandolin to Gary many years ago. He had the instrument cleaned and repaired but then nearly sold it after she died because somehow an essential family connection had slipped by him unnoticed. When I explained it had belonged to Genevieve’s father, he took it out again and held it. “Then…

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  • NOT BOX

    NOT BOX

    I felt the cold coming on Monday night. I tried to convince myself it was nerves. It is my first real sickness since I retired. On the 7th of July, I put money down on a desk that I had been saving for since the year before. On the 7th of November, they finally came…

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  • THE PLANS

    THE PLANS

    Last night I started the dough for panettone. This morning I mixed the dough and set it to rise, and that’s when the trouble started. An hour before they went into the oven, Gary had plans. “Bring your breakfast and I will hold things up. You don’t even have to touch it. Just say yes…

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  • PREPARATION

    PREPARATION

    The rain is finally here, and the tide sweeps up over sand that has been dry for months. The last time we drove over the coast range, vine maples were turning scarlet and purple. It is only October for one more day and I have been receiving weekday recommendations for holiday preparations from Apartment Therapy.…

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  • ‘When something like this happens . . . ‘

    Many people are finding it emotionally challenging to watch the news these days. They do not feel connected to events, to politics, to the ebb and flow of our national debate. I understand that. Just last week I was thinking over my personal experiences with accidental shootings leading to lost use of legs, to murders,…

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  • WEATHER GAGE*

    WEATHER GAGE*

    I have begun rereading Patrick O’Brian’s Jack Aubrey/Stephen Maturin novel series for the third time, this time aloud. I found the jargon and exposition early in Master and Commander hard going aloud, but we have moved on from there to familiarity with some details and absolute acceptance of the rest. My husband laughs at every…

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  • ON NOT WRITING

    ON NOT WRITING

    The process is frightening, this writing process. Unlike the performance, the meal, the quilt (I am knitting just now) there is no clear completion. We can only rarely say with any lasting conviction that we are finished writing. We merely choose to stop at some point. We live with our writing for such a long…

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  • WHAT IS IT?

    WHAT IS IT?

    Giant cricket? Super grasshopper? It was on the beach this morning! When I asked Gary to put his size 12 foot in the frame for scale, it sidled right over and checked his shoe out. When Gary stepped away, it hopped after him. Yikes! What? At least we recognized the thing below as a spider.

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  • THE ENEMY?

    THE ENEMY?

    Does it seem to anyone else that we have been going backwards? When hundreds of terrified people flee violence, rape, and murder in their own country, it seems to me that the solution is to help make their country safer, not to turn our own country into a place where children are torn from their…

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