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  • SLEEPING IN

    SLEEPING IN

    Sleeping in . . . will not happen. Of course it won’t. Tomorrow is Christmas and even though I do not have to provide a holiday meal for anyone, I did make 5 panettones today, plus the stuffed baked potatoes with and without dairy, and the pumpkin custards with and without dairy and refined sugar.…

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  • COLLEGE DEBT

    COLLEGE DEBT

    Never trust memes. Verify. My mother first explained “where the money went” to me when I was about eight years old. “Here is how much your father earns each month . . . ” She wrote out mortgage payments, utilities, food . . . The budget of Trevor Klee is making people hysterical. Where does…

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  • A YEAR OF READING IN REVIEW

      I read, I realize now, a great many memoirs, beginning with Anne Frank’s Diaries and I Never Promised You a Rose Garden by Hannah Green [Joanne Greenberg], and right through recent best sellers. An essay on the Brevity blog defends the memoir against accusations of “misery porn.” Judging from my recent history, I am on that…

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  • LIVING AT SEA LEVEL

    LIVING AT SEA LEVEL

    There is a major front moving in. Gary has come up the stairs twice to tell me about it. Perhaps two inches of rain. He will need to buy the whipping cream today—how much did I need? Three quarts. The tide sweeps up nearly to the hedge and he suggests we might get a walk…

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  • WRAPPING UP

    WRAPPING UP

    The year is not over, but with Hanukkah already past, five days to the beginning of winter, and just over two weeks till 2019, “the season” is closing in. The day before yesterday I wrapped gifts for twenty people. Yes, I am amazed too. We sent out fewer holiday cards, but we did get them…

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  • NO ONE WANTS YOUR STUFF

    NO ONE WANTS YOUR STUFF

    Mom told us: “Just sell it or give it to the kids [her grandchildren] and they can sell it.” She had promised that I would inherit her home, the house I designed and supervised in building, ordered the cabinets, installed the tile backsplash and the tile floor and walls in the bathroom and the entryway…

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  • MISSING THE WINDOW

    MISSING THE WINDOW

    The Director of a writing event responded the other day to my application for a Fellowship. I thought I was a good fit when I sent it off. Connection to the West was essential, a writer without major accomplishments, no book out nor a book deal in the making. I have been writing for decades…

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  • ASPIRATION

    ASPIRATION

    NaNoWriMo offered me a very specific goal for three years: 50k words in 30 days. I wrote over 70k. During April, National Poetry Month, I wrote the draft of a poem each day + posted poetry prompts for several years running. Here I am blogging. One of my longterm goals was to be published in…

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  • CHOOSING FAMILY

    CHOOSING FAMILY

    “Marriage still ain’t equal, y’all. It ain’t equal. I tell women that whole ‘you can have it all’ — mmm, nope. Not at the same time. That’s a lie. It’s not always enough to lean in, because that s— doesn’t work.” — Michelle Obama Some would consider me a second-wave feminist. This is because I…

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  • TELLING

    TELLING

    My husband said to me this morning, “You are always in teacher-mode.” As a result I posted a warning and got my ears boxed. Actually several times, and I deserved it at least once. I have been irritating people I like and love with posts on Facebook. Here’s the one I defend: The death and…

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