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  • BOOKS

    BOOKS

    “Honestly, it’s not as bad as the books.” Where to put them all? It’s the question about moving to a smaller place that has most troubled us. Yesterday, almost as soon as we arrived, I pulled up the long carpet in the bedroom, put pads under the feet of the bed, and swung the bed…

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  • EASY DOES IT

    EASY DOES IT

    We’ve been sorting and clearing for a few years. It’s gone well so far. The attics are empty. Most of my books are prioritized and the most precious of mine have moved East. We’ve talked a lot about the art and furniture that is important to us both. Gary even completely cleared his corner of…

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  • GOOD & BAD

    GOOD & BAD

    I should never have mentioned that very popular pop star. It led to frustrating exchanges until I took the post down. Today began with positive covid tests. I am not in the mood.

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  • CARROT & STICK

    CARROT & STICK

    Yesterday I shared a meme on my newly revived Facebook page. My friends “liked” or “loved” or “cared” that post. The meme contains a great story. I loved the story and appreciated the “truth” of it at first. But then I thought. The problem is that while the story may or may not be fiction,…

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  • RUNNING INSIDE

    RUNNING INSIDE

    A friend recently celebrated on Facebook that her young son had accomplished work on the family car. I cut my husband’s hair last night. I will bake bread tomorrow. I am weaving cloth. All these skills and many more—like cleaning my own home and washing my own clothing—can be hired out. Mostly, what I do…

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  • MINDFULNESS

    MINDFULNESS

    PE was the hardest class for me all the way through public school. Girls were not much encouraged to play sports in the 50s and 60s, of course. Outside the school day, I rode my bike everywhere, climbed trees and a rope all the way to the top of the gym, nearly drowned in Echo…

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  • LIES

    LIES

    Lies, damned lies, and statistics “Lies, damned lies, and statistics” is a phrase describing the persuasive power of statistics to bolster weak arguments, “one of the best, and best-known” critiques of applied statistics. It is also sometimes colloquially used to doubt statistics used to prove an opponent’s point. The phrase was popularized in the United States by…

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  • SHOPPING/not shopping

    SHOPPING/not shopping

    When you live more than five miles from the nearest small and overpriced grocery store, fifteen miles from the nearest full grocery store (also overpriced), and thirty-five miles from Costco, shopping during the pandemic simply played on your habits of shopping rarely and large. Shopping locally in our tourist economy meant the our monthly drive…

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  • MY FIFTIES

    MY FIFTIES

    An article in The Guardian details Fanny Johnstone’s experience caring for her father in the last year and a half of his life. “I wouldn’t have missed it for the world’: 10 things I learned when my father had dementia.” It is a healthy and generous story, rich with laughter and grief and kindness and…

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